Welcome to our corner of the World

The Social Club is a celebration of the Gender Spectrum, in both body and spirit, for the Transgender, cross-dressing, and Gender non-conforming communities.
The Social Club is a Discreet, Safe and Private meeting place where you can spend the day en femme, make friends, become a Member or even rent a locker.  The Social Club is a member-focused establishment, We do offer day passes and storage, as well as multi-day and monthly memberships to the club.  For more details on Day Pass Membership. Need long term storage or a locker? Contact Aejaie for details.We are the only Transgender owned and operated boutique and social club on the west coast.

In town for business or pleasure, stop by and see us.

Our Boutique, Sweet Forbidden, offers a wide selection of merchandise.
We’re located at 1630 Oakland Road, #A105, San Jose, CA 95131.

We are right off of 880, 101 and 680 and have free parking.

Tuesday – Friday Noon – 7:00p
Saturday & Sunday Noon – 6:00pm
Monday – Available for Private Appointments ONLY

Our secure online boutique is available to you 24/ 7, where you can shop for lingerie, shoes, clothing, wigs, breast forms, makeup and more.

Need a makeover or maybe a new look?

Get a Makeover or Transformation from Aejaie.  She will transform you into the women you’ve dreamed of becoming.

Looking to go out in public for the first time?

One of our excursions or outings is the perfect way to be out for the first time. We want you to have the experience of a lifetime.  Let us help you create the perfect outing, weekend or vacation.

Are you feeling stuck or have a bunch of question?

Schedule a  Consultation or Coaching Session with Aejaie

Aejaie has been coaching and mentoring members of the Transgender Community for over 25 years.

Membership & Lockers

The Social Club is a discreet, safe and private member-focused space.

Day Passes

However, everyone is required to follow two simple rules:

1. You must respectful and courteous.

2. You must be dressed appropriately – No Nudity.


The Social Club was created as a place where you can come and be yourself. The club has a library of transgender books, a television and internet access.

We also provide a kitchenette with microwave and a refrigerator stocked with soft drinks and water for purchase, as well as coffee and tea.

Calendar & Events

To sign up for any of our Events/ Activities – Join our meetup group  – it’s FREE

Third Tuesday  is Movie Night

We try to go the third Tuesday of the month,  but if nothing interesting is playing we’ll take a rain check.

Check out our meetup group for the movies, times and locations.

Our Discussion Group

The Second and Fourth Wednesday of the month at 7:00 pm
RSVP at our Meetup Group

“TransTalk”  – A Community Call.

The call takes place on the fourth Tuesday of the month
More information about the call can be found here

The Irregular Lunch

Held the first and third Thursday of the month.  The irregular lunch has been happening for 35 years.  $10.00
More information about email Aejaie or call the club 408 298 6900

Friday’s at The Club

The “Weekender” happens every Friday
A little kick-start to the weekend starting at 5 pm.

First Friday Folly and Frolic
On the First Friday of each month, join us for our Folly and Frolic when we hit a local hot spot and let our hair down.
See our Meetup Group for details on where the party is!


Aejaie Franciscus is an active member of the Transgender Community. She transitioned in 1982 with the support of her family.

Her professional background has encompassed everything from the beauty industry to the world of nonprofit management. She is an accomplished business woman, coach, mentor and speaker on human sexuality and Transgender Issues. She has appeared on MSNBC with Tucker Carlson, as well as the Montel Williams Show. Aejaie is trained in stage and theatrical makeup.

“I see The Social Club as a safe space where members of the Transgender and Cross-Dressing Community can come and be themselves. It’s a space to explore one’s gender from all sides while meeting other who are on the same journey of explorations.”

Aejaie sees each client for who they are and where they want to go. No journey or path is the same.

The Social Club provides opportunities for clients to explore both within the safe space of the club as well as out in the community.

Aejaie is happily married to her husband Tony. Tony is a strong supporter of both her and the Transgender Community.