Welcome to our corner of the World

Carla’s – The Social Club is a celebration of the Gender Spectrum, in both body and spirit, for the Transgender, cross-dressing, and Gender non-conforming communities.  We are the only Transgender owned and operated boutique and social club on the west coast.

The Social Club is a Discreet, Safe and Private Space where you can spend the day en femme, make friends, become a Member or even rent a locker.  The Social Club is a member-focused establishment, We do offer day passes and storage, as well as multi-day and monthly memberships to the club.  Follow this link for more details on Day Passes and  Membership.  Need long-term storage or a locker? Contact Aejaie for details.

It’s a busy week with

Fat Tuesday, February 13, 2018

Valentine’s Wednesday, February 14, 2018

Lunar New Year,  February 16, 2018

What are you getting for yourself to celebrate?

Visit our sister sites

Sweet ForbiddenWhipped Kream


Video Makeup Lessons – Now Available

check it out here

In town for business or pleasure, stop by and see us.

Our Boutiques, Sweet Forbidden and Whipped Kream offer a wide selection of Merchandise and Novelties.

We’re located at 1630 Oakland Road, #A105, San Jose, CA 95131.

We are right off of 880, 101 and 680 and have free parking.

Tuesday – Friday Noon – 7:00pm
Saturday & Sunday Noon – 6:00pm
Monday – Available for Private Appointments ONLY

Our secure online boutiques, Sweet Forbidden and Whipped Kream are available to you 24/ 7, where you can shop for Lingerie, Shoes, clothing, Wigs, Breast Forms, Adult Novelties, Toys and more.

Need a makeover or maybe a new look?

Get a Makeover or Transformation from Aejaie.  She will transform you into the women you’ve dreamed of becoming.

Looking to go out in public for the first time?

One of our excursions or outings is the perfect way to be out for the first time. We want you to have the experience of a lifetime.  Let us help you create the perfect outing, weekend or vacation.

Are you feeling stuck or have a bunch of question?

Schedule a  Coaching Session with Aejaie

Aejaie has been coaching and mentoring members of the Transgender Community for over 25 years.

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Membership & Lockers

The Social Club is a discreet, safe and private member-focused space.

Day Passes

However, everyone is required to follow two simple rules:

1. You must respectful and courteous.

2. You must be dressed appropriately – No Nudity.


The Social Club was created as a place where you can come and be yourself. The club has a library of transgender books, a television and internet access.

We also provide a kitchenette with microwave and a refrigerator stocked with soft drinks and water for purchase, as well as coffee and tea.


We offer a full line of services and schedule your appointment click HERE.

Keep reading to learn more about the different services we provide!

Our makeovers are the perfect way to get ready for a day of shopping or a night on the town.  We provide all of the cosmetics for your makeover and will happily style your wig or hair for you.

Book Your Makeovers and Makeup Lessons

Our Dressing Services give you a chance to dress and explore with out the commitment of investing in clothing, wigs, and makeup.

Book A Dressing Services

A Transformation with Aejaie is the perfect experience. She will transform you into the women you’ve dreamed of becoming. A Theses services are is ideal for anyone from the novice dresser just starting out to or out-of-town visitor with a full closet at home.   The products that come with your Transformation are yours to keep.

Book your Transformations today!

Spend a day out and about or spend THREE!  We provide everything you need to truly feel like the lady you are.

Explore our Excursions

Don’t need a full day, Maybe just a little Shopping or Lunch.

Outing, Lunches, and Shopping

While I’m happy to answer a quick question over the phone, I offer consultations and coaching to give your the quality time and focus you deserve.   Schedule your Coaching Session or Consultations Today!

We offer several group classes throughout the year.

Try one of Our Classes

Still Nervous – see what clients are saying  or set up a Consultation with Aejaie

or better yet set up a consultation with Aejaie to get all your questions answered.

Calendar & Events

To sign up for any of our Events/ Activities – Join our meetup group  – it’s FREE

Third Tuesday  is Movie Night

We try to go the Second Tuesday of the month,  but if nothing interesting is playing we’ll take a rain check.

Check out our meetup group for the movies, times and locations.

Our Discussion Group

The Second and Fourth Wednesday of the month at 7:00 pm
RSVP at our Meetup Group

No Discussion Group on Wednesday, February 14, 2018 – Happy Valentines

“TransTalk”  – A Community Call.

The call takes place on the fourth Tuesday of the month.  We use Uber Conference.  To help maintain a conversational call we only make room for 10 people.  The call starts at 10 pm Eastern/ 7 pm Pacific.

join us on the web – www.uberconference.com/aejaie

or call 720 835 5610  Pin#  08176

The Irregular Lunch

Held the third Thursday of the month.  The irregular lunch has been happening for 35 years.  $10.00
More information about email Aejaie or call the club 408 298 6900

Friday’s at The Club

The “Weekender” happens every Friday
A little kick-start to the weekend starting at 5 pm.


Carla’s Social Club creates a safe and private space to the Transgender and Cross-Dressing Community.  We are focused on Community, Awareness, Relationships, Learning, Activism, and Socialization  – CARLAS.

Carla’s is the only Social Club 100% owned and operated by a member of the Transgender Community.

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Aejaie Franciscus is an active member of the Transgender Community. She transitioned in 1982 with the support of her family.

You have played such a huge role in supporting my “coming of age”! *:) happy
-Angela – California

Her professional background has encompassed everything from the beauty industry to the world of nonprofit management. She is an accomplished business woman, coach, mentor and speaker on human sexuality and Transgender Issues. She has appeared on MSNBC with Tucker Carlson, as well as the Montel Williams Show. Aejaie is trained in stage and theatrical makeup.

“I had a marvelous experience. I found Aejaie to be warm, caring, encouraging and supportive. I definitely will go back, and I highly recommend Carla’s.” – Alicia B – Vancouver, Canada

Aejaie sees each client for who they are and where they want to go. No journey or path is the same.

The Social Club provides opportunities for clients to explore both within the safe space of the club as well as out in the community.

Aejaie is happily married to her husband Tony. Tony is a strong supporter of both her and the Transgender Community.

Feel Free to Contact Aejaie 


408 298 6900